一聲歎息，昨日新加坡又現一起家庭悲劇，夫婦已雙雙去世……
據新加坡本地多家媒體報道，1月30日早上8點左右，警方接到報案稱裕廊園景路發生家庭糾紛，家中女傭滿身是血逃出家門，在路邊向衆人大呼救命。警方到達時，事發單位門被反鎖，夫妻在屋內爭執，新加坡民防部隊出動將夫妻二人送往國大醫院，但最終不治。
怨偶雙雙命喪黃泉
據警方調查，血案經過疑是男方（37歲，新加坡人）先揮刀砍傷女方（39歲，馬來西亞籍永久居民，夫妻均爲華人），再砍傷自己企圖自殺，女傭因勸架，也被傷及，身上多處負傷。他們還有一年幼兒子，事發時不在家。
據聯合早報報道，鄰居稱，女方及女方父母在事發單位居住三十余年，在女方結婚後，女方父母回吉隆坡打點生意，把單位留給女兒和女婿住。在命案發生同時，新加坡多家媒體收到男子通過Email發出的遺書——“裕廊凶殺案”。
遺書道出屈辱真相
在遺書中，男方講述了12年的屈辱經曆。在他們戀愛並同居5年多時，曾與妻子（當時的女朋友）分手過一段時間，在此期間，妻子與另外的男性交往並懷孕生下一個孩子，但男方還是選擇與女方結婚，並把這個不是自己親生的孩子當成自己的孩子一樣看待。但妻子始終不尊重他，男方本來想爲了孩子保全完整家庭，但女方卻執意要離婚而且在處理離婚協議的過程中，竟扮演起受害者，讓仍在新加坡建築學院求學的男方不得不停止學業來反駁她的控告，“終于認清她是一個怎樣的人”。男方也稱與女方相處讓自己精神壓力巨大，經常有自殺沖動。遺書中，他也提到非親生的孩子，希望當局能爲兒子找寄養家庭。
遺書及簡短翻譯
Final Note
It’s sad that things had to be in this way, but with 12 years of greivances, suffering in silence and humilation i had with her and what i got in return is her lies, empty promises and betrayal. Totally ignoring my sacrifaces, endurance towards her bad character and wrong doings. All these years of marriage with her, i had constantly contemplating with the idea of suicide, the mental stress i had with her is too much for me.
（忍受了12年的生活，只換回她的謊言及空口承諾，在與她的婚姻裏，因爲壓力太大，我無數次想自殺）
My Studies
Only after i started study, i finally gained back some confidence and idea of what i wanted to do again. I had make so much effort in being an “A” student. Time required for to and fro from my place to BCA takes about 4 hours daily and i make sure i went for every lesson no matter how long the lessons are, even for sometimes 1 to 2 hour lesson. Sleep only 4-6 hours daily and the rest of the time are for studies, no TV, no Entertainment. Exam and Project period is even worst, Only 4 hours of sleep and have to sleep at 11pm and wake up at 3am so that i have more time to do what i need to do and prepare for the day. Study at 36 years old after being away from studies about 18 years and especially wanted to fight with the elites from china to be top of the cohort and “A” student is not a joke.
（我又重回校園並找回一些自信，因爲我也可以成爲拿到“A”成績的學生。我每天只睡4-6小時，不看電視，沒有娛樂。作爲36歲的，時隔18年後才重返校園的我，和中國來的精英們競爭，我還能拿A不是開玩笑的）
Our Divorce
I had already agree that we can divorce as long as we keep it peaceful as i don’t want to hurt the kid in anyway and my studies shouldn’t be affected. I came from a divorced family and i know very clearly how much hurt it can give to a kid, firstly, she agreed. However after she talk to her lawyer with APL Law Corporation, she turned and tried to act as the victim, giving false information to discredit me and my contribution to this family, thinking of using Singapore Women’s Charter against me. Finally, forced me out of my studies to contest her allegations and the divorce is really the breaking point for me.
（我已經同意和平分手，因爲我不想傷害我們的孩子，也不想學業受影響。我自己就是來自于離異家庭，我知道這對孩子有多麽不好的影響。她一開始統一體了，結果她後來找了律師，就開始扮演受害者，否認我對家庭的貢獻，最終我不得不中斷我的學業來反駁她的指控）
Women’s Charter in Divorce
That is the worst part in singapore law, totally unfair and biased against guys in divorce, it doesn’t consider the fault or problem of the woman in the marriage, all benefits will be given to the ladies. That is why many woman are abusing it for their own financial benefits and using it to threaten their husband during marriage. Although there are appeals for this charter to be abolish or amended but as usual, the government won’t do anything against it without any benefits as they worried about losing woman voters and singaporean guys had to live with terms to that. Law should be Fair and Just, but somehow it is no longer the case for me.
（新加坡法律一點都不公平，根本不考慮女性在婚姻中的過錯，在離婚中太偏向女方。）
Her Family and TYT Corporation
Her family is really a problematic and totally unethical one. Parents are extremely selfish and moral values are totally at ground zero.
Father is only interested in shares, disregard the family and constantly plotting against his own children to seize control of the company that they built.
Mum is totally a irresponsible liar, constantly making empty promises, always like to show off and brag to others how good she and her family is, but never consider her own mannerism and behavior in public. Pack leftover food for friends to show off where she went, for goodness sake, that is not being generous, that is constantly insulting people. Even treat her own home like garung guni, stuffing house with rubbish she find outside and never bother to tidy them.
As for the three pillar of TYT Corporation, Andy, Karen and Rachel. Many would consider Andy and Karen as the Mr nice guy and Karen Ms nice lady and Rachel as the scheming stingy wife. At least Rachel is the only true person to her own character.
Andy Koh, your Mr Nice Guy is actually committing Bigamy for the past 7-8 years. Married in singapore but marry another woman in china, and hiding her in Malaysia with a kid almost 7 years old. His parents and karen, all know about it and all trying to cover up for him all these years. So in singapore as a cover up or make amends, he acts like a caring husband and following Rachel way in the growth of company.
Rachel is not stupid so i believe she knew about the Bigamy as well, because of his frequent flyer to Malaysia with lies of trying to expand TYT Corp to Malaysia and she even got a letter from the mistress asking her to leave him so she could take care of him. Yes, he already expanded his roots there long ago. Why is she enduring all that? Simple, true to perspective, she is the greedy and scheming woman. Would you want about $4.000 in alimony and about a million or two in assets from divorce or constantly drawing around $8,000 in salary and about $7,000 allowances monthly, driving Jaguar and changing car annually with whole company of people have to listen to you and the assets are still under her control if she stay married? Answer is simple, at least to her.
（講了一些關于他妻子家人的事情，說她母親也是個騙子，說她兄弟重婚還有私生子）
Karen Koh, Ms Nice Lady, the lady i’m with for 12 years. I’m being blinded by her lies and seemingly nice lady nature. Staying with her for 5 years plus before we broke off first. Then she got involve as a mistress to a married guy, got pregnant and abandoned. However, she insisted that she wanted to keep the kid, her parents as usual doesn’t care or bother with that.
（這裏就是前文提到的，同居5年後妻子生下別人的孩子，她父母也不管）
The experience i had with her already told me, she will never be a loving and caring mother. Kid to her is just like me to her, dogs. She just want companionship whenever she want, she won’t be responsible to them or show love and care towards them. She promised that she will be a changed person and somehow, i believed her, you can call me blind by love or desperation to settle down, i actually propose to her and we got married. I thought after the last failed relationship with the married guy, she will realise the value of a man when he is willing to stand by you even this kind of thing happened and willingness to care and love a kid that is not his. After all these years, truth be told, she totally possess her parents traits and even worse than that, Ingrate, Liar, Schemer, Irresponsible, Actress, Lack of moral values, really if you named it, she almost got it. For sure even though the kid is not my biological son but i love him maybe even much more than my own, as i actually quit my work to take care of him and this family for 4 years before i started my studies.
（她不是個好母親，孩子對她來說就像寵物一樣。她不負責，也不懂愛。我還是相信她並和她結婚共同照顧這個孩子，但她和她家人越來越過分了。我還是愛這個孩子，即使不是我親生的，我還辭掉工作，照顧他4年。）
TYT Corporation Pte Ltd
As for how much they expolit the company to evade their own taxes and increase their own benefits, that is the job of IRAS, see if the government want to check on them.
（妻子的公司有偷稅漏稅行爲，希望政府嚴查）
The Maid, Jasmen Jamelarin Corpuz
I had already given her many chances, and wanted to terminate her services 4 years ago because of the terrible way she is at managing her job and the kid, which resulted in the kid having skin and allergy issues but she gained the favor of Karen and Karen chose to keep her while ignoring my wish. After that, she had been giving me attitudes and teaching the kid to disrespect me and not greeting me by using the threat of tears and the boy love for her. She is also one of the my greatest mistakes. I shouldn’t trust her into this family, let the kid sleep with her and be under her care while i study. Frankly, it is not my choice anyway as Karen is the one deciding them all along, disrespecting my opinions and wish all along. In this family, i’m like the outsider and like Karen is the husband, i’m the housewife and he brought a mistress, the maid, back and can even tell me “I don’t care whether you like it or not, i want her in this family. If you have problems with her, work it out with her.” who can accept this kind of nonsense yet i endured for nearly 4 years. An excellent bootlicker, politician and manipulator, destroy my family so that she can enjoy the luxuries of life with Karen.
（對女傭很不滿意，但妻子不聽他意見堅持要留下女傭）
My only worry, Kid
Her parents groomed such kind of kids, after our death, i can imagine how bad the kid will be in the future with them. Her mum is the one who promised that she would stay at home to take care of the baby so that i can do my own work, however within less than a month, she complained the lack of freedom, body aches and sickness, she can’t take care of him, which forced me to stop all my working plans to be a home dad to take care of the kid so that she can continue to work. After i took care of the kid, she immediately recover and going out everyday with her friends, that is the kind of grandma. I sincerely hope that the kid in future won’t have the traits of her mum and grandma, be taught that as long as you can cover up your mistakes and problems which Andy and Karen are practicing now, you can get away with anything. So i hope the kid will be set up by the government for adoption, so that he can be brought up in a proper home and are taught the proper manners and ways to be a man. Please do not let him be in the care of the Grandparents or Andy, or else the kid will suffer more and be taught of all the bad ethics and morals in life.
（唯一的挂念就是孩子，希望政府可以幫忙找到家庭收養，教孩子成長成人）
Conclusion
I may not be the best husband around but at least i tried my best and given enough patience to her and her family. Yet you never treated me as a man, husband or allowing me to be a proper father. Even in divorce, you did it in an arrogant way, “take my offer of nothing and leave, i don’t care what are your wishes and resolutions as you won’t have money to fight against me as well” and using my studies to threaten me to accept your divorce terms. You really insulted my intergrity and pride. I endured for so long, for 12 years even with less than 5 times of sex for all these years, i stayed and support you, i endured what most man can’t endured because i love you and last few years for the love of the kid and family. But the way you manage the divorce change everything, i finally realise what kind of devil you are, all should end 3 months ago, but my love and pity for the kid make me give you 3 more months to consider or make amends but you didn’t and you gotten worse. I thought of getting justice through Singapore Law however that won’t be possible because of Women’s Charter, and my endurance for you and the maid is finally to the limit. So time is up. I will give you and the maid what you all deserve before i end mine. I said before for so many years, i don’t need anything from you, just need respect and honor as a man, knowing and loving you is really my biggest mistake in life. Son, sorry that you have to go through all these, I love you but your mum force me out of my limits. Hope your new family can help you overcome the trauma.
（在12年裏，我們的夫妻生活不超過5次的情況下，我還是選擇隱忍，但你沒有給我一點尊重，從來沒有把我當一個男人和丈夫看。我一直愛這個家愛這個孩子，但你處理離婚的方式改變了一切。我一直都說我不需要從你身上得到什麽，只要你尊重我一個男人的尊嚴，但愛上你是我一生中最大的錯誤）
PS: Please help me spread this to let the Singapore government understand the kid predicament and send him for adoption, never ever let him stay with the grandparent who are terribly selfish and irresponsible, or with Andy who commit bigamy, he already have 2 wife and 3 kids, he won’t take good care of the boy.
（請幫我擴散給新加坡政府，讓政府幫忙給孩子找收養家庭，千萬別讓他回到妻子的自私的家人手裏）
警方已將案件列爲非自然死亡案件處理，案件仍在調查中。
微博 @新加坡眼 網友的部分評論：
@熊玲玲兒：女死者是我媽公司的顧客，她還跟我媽的同事說他老公好吃懶作不找工作得靠她養（照這裏看是他老公甯願讀書也不去上班吧），重點是她老公帶小三回家過夜什麽的。。。現在看這遺書…
@吃西瓜吃葡萄吃蘋果：老婆家有錢，各種情婦包養；這男的的老婆也做別人的情婦還有了小孩，男的知道還娶了…然後各種不被老婆，老婆家人，甚至女傭的尊重，沒話語權，然後爆發了…
@想__想：此人自身性格沒有缺陷嗎？都怪罪在妻子的性格和妻子的父母什麽什麽什麽的。不是說人之將死其言也善嗎？只看到他描述自己掙紮在痛苦裏的部分，我就覺得他自身問題更大了。那些擔心孩子的話都是屁話吧。只是爲了將死前維系一下一個好爸爸的角色，極力把自己並不太善良的一面展現的很美麗很善良吧…
@HarrySG：太悲劇了！ 實在是有太多不滿，所有人都罵一遍，，連Elites from China 都躺槍。。。
@Mialaurel：任何時候不要輕視婚姻的能力，它能毀掉一個人。
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