正文翻譯
Is it normal that my 31 years old daughter is still single, hates kids and doesn’t even want to get married?
我31歲的女兒仍然單身，討厭孩子，甚至不想結婚，這正常嗎？
評論翻譯
Kanthaswamy Balasubramaniam
This is 2022
Yes in 1990 – If a Girl was unmarried at 26 or 27 it was Alarms
In 2022 – No!!!
Its not abnormal for a 31 year old Girl to both hate children and be Single and not to want to get married.
You should WANT to get married not HAVE to get married
I have seen hundreds of couples get painful divorces because Mummy and Papa pushed them into marriages that they didnt want or were ready food.
現在是2022年了！
是的，在1990年的時候，如果一個女孩在26歲或27歲時未婚，那就是個警報了。
在2022年，不是！！！
一個31歲的女孩既討厭孩子又單身又不想結婚，這並不奇怪。
人們應該想要結婚，而不是必須結婚。
我見過數百對夫婦痛苦地離婚，因爲爸爸媽媽把他們推入了他們不想要的婚姻或鋪好的道路。
Always the same story
Mummy said i was already 27 years old ..
The Pressure was too much from Parents, Relatives
Result is always the same story – Divorce Decreed under Irreconcilable Differences
There could be 20,000 Reasons why a 31 Year Old Girl doesnt want to get married
A Very Bad Breakup, Inferiority Complex wrt Complexion, Looks etc, Simply wanting to focus on Career at the moment and enjoying work too much, Being a Secret Lesbian or simply just wanting to have fun and stay single
What do you have to do ?
Let her live her life
You take a Holiday to Singapore or Australia and Enjoy Yours (Europe would not be right during the Ukranian Conflict)
總是一樣的故事。
媽媽說我已經27歲了……
來自父母、親戚的壓力太大了。
結果總是一樣的——離婚是在不可調和的分歧下被判決的。
一個31歲的女孩不想結婚可能有20000個原因。
經曆了一次很糟糕的分手，自卑，膚色問題，長相問題等等，或者只想專于注事業，過于享受工作，是個秘密的女同性戀者，或者只是想保持單身、活得開心。
你應該怎麽辦？
讓她去過她自己的生活。
你可以去新加坡或澳大利亞度假，享受你的假期（在烏克蘭沖突期間，不要去歐洲）
Brownbear Isaiah
sir your placement of capital letters is fantastic was it the keyboard or you purposely capitalized secret and lesbian?
先生，你大寫字母的位置太棒了，是鍵盤的原因，還是你故意大寫的：“秘密”和“女同性戀”？
Simranjeet Singh Gandhi
In any case the regrets are bound to be much more on the side of getting married. There are on the other side too, but much less. All the major decisions of life are ultimately a trade-off of regrets.
Nothing comes free!
無論如何，結婚的遺憾肯定會更多。單身也會有遺憾，但要少得多。生活中所有的重大決定最終都是一種遺憾的權衡。
沒有什麽是免費的！
Gayatri Narayanan
I too was worried and extremely stressed, from the time my daughter was 22. We started getting good proposals, even now though she’s 31, though not as many.
But she is very clear about not marrying, so now have come to terms with that.
Infact when we see & hear about incompatibility of several newly married couples, on hind thought, I feel it’s not wise to force them into it.
從我女兒22歲起，我也很擔心，壓力也很大。我們剛開始會收到很多很好的建議，等到她31歲的時候，就沒有那麽多了。
她已經想清楚自己不會結婚了，所以我現在也接受了。
事實上，當我們看到和聽到幾對新婚夫婦的不和諧時，事後想想，我覺得強迫他們這樣做是不明智的。
Supriya
Oh! This girl sounds so similar to me. I am 34 now but I got married when I was 31 and I don’t like kids at all. My husband and I both intend to not have kids. I can understand her when she says she hates kids – most kids are actually annoying as hell. There are hardly any cute kids around.
Many of my friends are not having kids either. The person who asked the question – the mom or dad needs to chill. As Mr KB said, take a trip to the mountains or a beach and relax.
哦！這個女孩聽起來很像我。我現在34歲，但我31歲結婚了，我一點都不喜歡孩子。我丈夫和我都不想生孩子。當她說她討厭孩子時，我能理解她——大多數孩子實際上都很討厭。周圍幾乎沒有可愛的孩子。
我的許多朋友也沒有孩子。問這個問題的人——媽媽或爸爸需要冷靜。正如KB先生所說，去山上或海灘旅遊，放松一下。
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Mani Shankar
As a loving parent, your concerns about your 31 years old daughter is quite reasonable and understandable. Any parent would like their daughter to get married and settle down in life.
However, your daughter may have her own valid reasons for remaining single, not wanting to get married and having kids. So, her decision not to get married now is quite right. She does not want to tell lies for the sake of getting married. This is quite appreciable and you must be proud of your daughter.
作爲一位慈愛的父母，你對31歲女兒的擔憂是合理的，也是可以理解的。任何父母都希望他們的女兒結婚並安頓下來。
然而，你的女兒可能有她自己的正當理由保持單身，不想結婚生子。所以，她現在不結婚的決定是對的。她不想因爲結婚的事情而撒謊。這很值得贊賞，你一定要爲你的女兒感到驕傲。
Imagine a situation wherein under compulsion from parents, she gets married and finds it difficult to lead a marital life with husband and both decide to get separated. This will cause more hurt to everybody.
May be, she will change her thoughts later about marriage. There are many women today, who are single, love their freedom, individuality, doing well at the professional and personal front and shouldering all responsibilities joyfully.
So, accept your daughter as she is, encourage and support her, give her the assurance that you are always there to listen, understand and support and just stop worrying about what others will say.
When you do this, you will love to see the pleasant atmosphere prevailing at home for everyone to enjoy. Best wishes.
想象一下，在父母的強迫下，她結婚了，發現很難和丈夫過上婚姻生活，兩人決定分居。這將對每個人造成更大的傷害。
也許，她以後會改變對婚姻的看法。今天有很多單身女性，她們熱愛自己的自由和個性，在職業和個人方面做得很好，並愉快地肩負著所有責任。
所以，接受你女兒的現狀，鼓勵和支持她，向她保證你總是在那裏傾聽、理解和支持，不要再擔心別人會說什麽。
當你這樣做的時候，你歡喜的看到家裏盛行著愉快的氣氛，讓每個人都能快樂。最美好的祝福。
Aditi S.M
No it is not ok!
You have to force her to get married by 24
Have kids by 26
And life her life crying each day regretting she was raised in a family that forces her to be who she is not.
Do you want this?
If yes please put pressure on her, weep everyday infront of her so that she gives up on her happiness.
不，這不好！
你必須強迫她在24歲之前結婚。
26歲的時候生孩子。
然後，她的人生每天都在哭泣，後悔在這樣一個強迫她做別人的家裏長大。
你想要這個嗎？
如果是，請給她施加壓力，每天在她面前哭泣，這樣她就會放棄她的幸福。
Imagine if due to family pressure she gets married and even has a kid. But if that is not what she wants will she be happy?
There are so many girls not willing to marry or have kids and are living so happily, living a life they want.
They say purpose of getting married is to get a company when one falls sick or is low. Is someone really required?
If she can manage things on her own, let her take her own time. Let her figure out things.
Let girls live a life they want.
Let marriage not be a major goal in life.
想象一下，如果由于家庭壓力，她結婚了，甚至有了一個孩子。但如果那不是她想要的，她會高興嗎？
有那麽多女孩不願意結婚或生孩子，她們過著幸福的生活，過著她們想要的生活。
他們說結婚的目的是在一個人生病或情緒低落時找一個伴。有些人真的擁有這些了嗎？
如果她能自己管理事情，就讓她自己慢慢來吧。讓她自己去把事情弄清楚。
讓女孩過她們想要的生活。
不要讓婚姻成爲人生的主要目標。
Sangeeta
Loving freedom is a very thing these days, irrespective of the gender.
I, myself, was not willing to get married until 29. I got married at 29 and then I was not ready to embrace motherhood. Finally, I decided to be a mother at the age of 34.
Oh yes, I also never liked kids. Now, I smile at kids after my son is born but yes, I am still not a very kid friendly person.
We look at the hardships of previous generation and subconsciously make a decision to not get married.
如今，無論性別如何，熱愛自由都是一件非常重要的事情。
我自己直到29歲才願意結婚。我29歲結婚，那時我還沒有准備好做母親。最後，我決定在34歲的時候做一個母親。
哦，是的，我也從來不喜歡孩子。現在，我在兒子出生後，也會對孩子們微笑，但是，我仍然不是一個非常友善的人。
我們看著上一代人的艱辛，下意識地決定不結婚。