4月26日,一名37歲的新加坡特需男子,因尋找丟失的寵物倉鼠,從大巴窯組屋8樓墜落喪命。
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這名男子的家人當時也在房中,由于事情發生的極爲突然,家人完全沒有時間進行阻止……. 醫護人員趕到現場後,當場確認男子死亡。
本周二(4月30日),新加坡特別需求者協會APSN發臉書悼念,稱這位男子叫做Jackson Wong,生前是協會的一員,並緬懷了之前與死者相處的點點滴滴。
悼文中回憶道,死者生前是個極爲善良孝順的人。即使在饑腸辘辘的時候,他還在關心可否給朋友們買早飯的問題。死者曾說“我關心他們,因爲他們是我的朋友”。
日常生活中,Jackson有一點害羞。每次遇見志願者來協會時,他雖然不好意思目光交流,卻會真誠地說謝謝,來表示對志願者們的喜愛。
他生前與家人也有著非常親密良好的關系。協會裏有額外的食物可以領取時,總是咨詢能否給自己的親人帶去一份。
悼文全文內容如下:
An alumni who will be dearly missed.
“What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others,” ~ History of the Peloponnesian War, by Thucydides, an ancient Greek historian.
You started caring for everyone from the minute you awoke every day, I fondly remember you when you asked if you could buy breakfast for your friends – and you did even when you did not have enough for yourself. And your reasoning was, “I care for them because they are my friends”.
You gave up your seat in the coach and your meals when you saw that your friends didn’t have enough or were tired. You were the first to volunteer yourself to assist your friends when they needed your assistance.
You were consistently early for all the outings, you infected everyone with your shy demeanour, you disliked making eye contacts but you reserved your fond gestures to the volunteers by ensuring you said thank you after every programme.
You were close to your friends but you were much closer to your family, and you remembered to quote your dad’s advice to you whenever you were about to make a mistake and realised your actions could cause your loved ones to be angry. Each and every time prior to leaving the programme, you asked if you could have extra bento sets/food to bring back home for your siblings, you always thought about your family.
In the end, what mattered most to you is the fact that you were able to put a smile on everyone that you came across with all the little, thoughtful & significant gestures that defined you.
Thank you Jackson for the fond memories. ~ penned by Mr Shasikaran K, APSN Senior Alumni Executive.
Jackson Wong, left us last Friday in an accident while searching for his pet hamster. The 37-year-old was Mr Shasikaran’s first alumni. #eulogy#apsnalumni #apsnsg
面對這樣的意外,很多網友也紛紛在臉書上留言,悼念這個可愛的37歲新加坡大男孩:
“對我們所有APSN的人來講,聽到這個消息真的非常難過。希望他能安息,家人度過難關…….”
“Jackson是我多年的朋友,我來這裏留言深深地向他的家人表示哀悼”
“一個善良樂于助人的人。他一定會被很多人深深懷念。安息…….”
希望善良的他在天堂快樂。願逝者安息~